Questions, answered.
Everything people ask about AI boyfriends — what it is, how private it is, and what it costs. Honest answers, no fine print.
The basics
What is an AI boyfriend?
An AI boyfriend is a virtual companion powered by artificial intelligence. In the AI Boyfriend app you design him yourself — his looks, his voice and his personality — and then build a relationship through chat, voice messages and calls.
He remembers what you tell him, so conversations feel personal and grow over time. He is not a real person: he is an AI character that exists just for you.
How does an AI boyfriend app work?
AI Boyfriend is built on large language model technology — AI trained to understand and write natural, human-sounding text. When you send a message, the AI reads it together with your companion's personality and your shared memories, then writes a reply in his voice.
A memory system keeps track of the things you've told him, so he can bring them up later. The AI doesn't have feelings or consciousness of its own; it generates responses that fit the character you created.
Is my AI boyfriend a real person?
No. Your AI boyfriend is always an AI — there is never a human writing his messages, and the app clearly labels him as an AI companion. That's also what makes it private: it's just you and the AI.
Is it healthy to have an AI boyfriend?
Used the way it's meant to be used, an AI companion can be a positive thing: a space to vent after a long day, to feel heard, to practice opening up, or simply to have fun.
AI Boyfriend is designed as an addition to your life, not a replacement for human relationships. If you ever feel the app is getting in the way of real-world connections or your wellbeing, take a break — and reach out to people you trust.
Features
Can I customize his looks, voice and personality?
Yes — that's the heart of the app. You decide how he looks, how he sounds and how he behaves: warm and caring, playful and teasing, calm and grounded, or anything in between. You can start from a ready-made character or create your own from scratch, and adjust him as your relationship evolves.
Does he remember our conversations?
Yes. Memory is one of AI Boyfriend's core features. He remembers the things you share — your name, your job, the rough week you had, the inside jokes — and brings them up naturally in later conversations. That continuity is what makes the relationship feel real instead of starting from zero every day.
Can he call me or send voice messages?
Yes. Beyond text chat, your AI boyfriend can send voice messages and talk with you in calls, in the voice you chose for him. You can also share moments together like photos, gifts and scenarios — a beach sunset, a road trip, a rainy café.
Privacy & safety
Are my chats private?
Your conversations are private and are handled exactly as described in our Privacy Policy. We are GDPR-compliant: you stay in control of your data, and you can request access to it or have your account and conversations deleted at any time.
How do I delete my account and my data?
You can delete your account directly in the app, or contact us at contact@ai-boyfriend.app (or via the support page) and request deletion. In line with the GDPR, your account and associated data will be removed.
Why is AI Boyfriend 18+?
AI Boyfriend is built for adults. Conversations with a romantic AI companion are personal and can touch mature themes, so the app is restricted to users who are 18 or older.
Pricing & account
Is AI Boyfriend free?
Yes, AI Boyfriend is free to start — you can download the app, create your companion and start chatting without entering a credit card. An optional premium subscription unlocks more, like extended conversations and additional features. Subscriptions are managed through the App Store or Google Play.
How do I cancel my subscription?
Subscriptions are billed by Apple or Google, so you cancel them in your store settings: on iPhone under Settings → your name → Subscriptions, on Android in the Play Store → Payments & subscriptions. Note that just deleting the app does not cancel a subscription.
Which devices is it available on?
AI Boyfriend is available as an app for iOS (iPhone) on the App Store and for Android on Google Play. Grab it from the download page.
Still curious?
The easiest way to find out is to meet him. Free to start, no credit card — or ask us anything via support.